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By: brent(inWorship) » Blog Archive » The Top 3…

brent(inWorship) » Blog Archive » The Top 3… — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 08:03:03 +0000

[...] “An Open letter to Married Men” – So, needless to say, I ranted a bit in this one. I was angry. Maybe too angry. But my intentions [...]

By: alece

alece — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 09:12:07 +0000

and by thursday i meant wednesday. of course.

By: alece

alece — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 21:23:25 +0000

GREAT thoughts. and i love that this came from a man. to the men. i've got a similarly-veined post going up on thursday. i'll be curious to hear your thoughts. alece´s last blog post...30 hours

By: brent(inWorship) » Blog Archive » Are You A Crumb?

brent(inWorship) » Blog Archive » Are You A Crumb? — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 17:26:47 +0000

[...] off my rant last week, I thought this video spoke nicely to some of my feelings. This is a clip from Newspring’s [...]

By: Heidi

Heidi — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:12:49 +0000

@Badguy.. I'm sure that has to be so tough. Praying.... Heidi´s last blog post...Green Pastures Part 3- Pearl Discovery

By: inWorship

inWorship — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:11:43 +0000

Bad, I do not know what you are feeling and going through. I have not had any of this happen personally to me. I watch it from the outside constantly, I watch it destroy people, but I cannot imagine the battles you must face in your heart an mind. My prayers are with you.

By: inWorship

inWorship — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:09:44 +0000

D, exactly. Semantics. I choose to do what’s right. I figured that statement was enough.

By: lazrus2

lazrus2 — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 01:58:35 +0000

Tam,
Thanks for the clarification. I guess I just see ‘care’ and ‘love’ going together (though different in definition), and the need for choosing both. So, I’ll assume he was seeing the terms as equivalent (i.e. ‘choosing to love’ = care?).

Where I wanna be too,
D-

By: badguy

badguy — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 20:29:26 +0000

My daughter just attended her first counseling session for being a victim of abuse in her marriage. I don't think much of her husband; he's emotionally and intellectually a child, and doesn't understand how much of a predator and abuser he is. It's sad because to a degree it's not his fault; but how do you take someone that is so broken and restore them to anything close to being a decent and contributing member of society - yet alone a loving husband and father. I don't say this lightly; he is that far gone, and has no comprehension of his own condition. Every action he takes is a manipulative ploy to get his way. No one is without hope? No one is beyond redemption? I want to believe that, but it will take a miracle (one of those truly inspiring, write a movie of the week, stop the presses intervention type of miracles. To be honest, I have a hard time praying a prayer that will restore him if it means he'll continue to be in relationship with my daughter. Lord, have mercy on me. badguy´s last blog post...Where’s Badguy?

By: tam's blog

tam's blog — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 18:56:24 +0000

D- said to brent…

“but is it safe to assume from your response in #34 that you don’t even WANT to ‘care’?”

i say, NO. read his response again…

“I don’t care for them. I can’t stand them. I hate what they are doing. But God calls me to love, so I choose to do that. And choose to help those who are willing to receive that help.”

he “chooses” to. therefore he wants to. he wants to honor God in that way.

sorry, but i just wanted to help you see that.

tam’s blog´s last blog post…outside my front door…